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Comprehensive Care

Tailored to Your Unique Needs

As a psychologist, neuroscientist, and educator, I bring a unique perspective shaped by lived experience. Offering telehealth support Australia-wide, I have four special interests:

1. trauma & trauma-related mental health challenges

2. identity struggles (e.g., core self; cultural; religious and/or spiritual; gender; sexual orientation)

3. displacement & migration issues

4. connection between physical health & psychological wellbeing

YOU ARE HERE!

WELCOME TO MY CORNER OF THE INTERNET

Seeking help from professionals can often be daunting, especially if you are used to tackling challenges on your own. Many of us prefer to handle our issues on our own and we grapple with the idea of reaching out for support. It's completely normal to feel anxious and uncertain when considering professional help; many people share these feelings.

However, it's important to recognise that:

asking for help is not a sign of weakness

Asking for help can provide you with a roadmap to navigate your problems and chart a path forward with greater clarity.

It's a powerful step towards:

  • taking control and moving into the driver’s seat of your life

  • navigating your path

  • making informed choices

HERE IS SOME IMPORTANT INFORMATION TO CONSIDER BEFORE CONNECTING WITH ME:

  1. I advocate for a therapeutic approach rooted in rigorous research and a deep respect for your unique background and experiences.

  2. My primary aim is to cultivate a safe and inviting environment where you can openly discuss your experiences and feelings without fear of judgment.

  3. During our sessions, my goal is to ensure that you feel heard, understood, and empowered.

  4. I strive to create an environment that supports your journey toward growth and healing, helping you move into the driver’s seat with clarity and a roadmap.

In today's modern world filled with social media's highlight reels and unrealistic ideals of success and happiness, seeking support is an act of courage—one I will celebrate with you.

After all, no one, anywhere, lives without their challenges, and carefully curated and edited highlight reels do not necessarily reflect the full reality of a person's life.

Even just being here, in this online space with me right now, is a significant step forward in your journey toward growth and healing.

areas of interest

I'm Dr. Selma Music, and I'm a registered psychologist drawing from a distinctive outlook shaped by lived experience.

I have nurtured four interests since starting my career in psychology and neuroscience. These interests are like separate train tracks that often connect with each other:

  • I use therapy approaches that have been carefully researched and proven to be effective in helping people who have gone through really tough and sometimes very upsetting experiences.

    Some of these experiences can be life-threatening, like wars or very serious accidents (we call these 'big T' traumas), while others might not be life-threatening but can still have a big impact, like being bullied or losing someone you love (we call these 'little t' traumas).

    'Big T' traumas are situations where there's an immediate threat to your life or physical safety, like in a car accident.

    'Little t' traumas can be distressing but might not have an immediate danger to your life or physical safety.

    Both types of experiences can really affect you emotionally, and these effects can add up over time. For more info, click here.

  • Identity challenges come in many forms. Here are common areas we can explore together:

    Cultural Identity

    • Navigating multiple cultures

    • Finding balance between heritage and new environments

    • Understanding your cultural roots

    Gender Identity

    • Exploring gender expression and identity

    • Understanding transgender and non-binary experiences

    • Processing gender-related questions and feelings

    Sexual Orientation

    • Understanding your attractions and relationships

    • Coming out and self-acceptance

    • Navigating relationships and family dynamics

    Religious & Spiritual Identity

    • Questioning faith or beliefs

    • Managing religious transitions

    • Balancing spirituality with other aspects of life

    Racial Identity

    • Processing experiences of discrimination

    • Understanding racial and ethnic heritage

    • Building positive racial identity

    Career & Values

    • Aligning work with personal values

    • Career transitions and meaning

    • Professional identity development

    Family & Relationships

    • Setting healthy boundaries

    • Managing family expectations

    • Balancing traditional and personal values

    Body & Self-Image

    • Building self-acceptance

    • Navigating health challenges

    • Developing positive body image

    Life Transitions

    • Adapting to major changes

    • Finding identity through different life stages

    • Managing relationship transitions

    Each journey is unique. We'll focus on what matters most to you, moving at your pace in a supportive environment.

  • I'm here to help you navigate the emotional rollercoaster that comes with displacement and migration. These experiences can really hit you hard, leaving you with feelings of loss, grief, and anxiety.

    But together, we'll dig into those feelings, work through them, and help you find a fresh sense of purpose and a place where you truly belong. For more info, click here.

  • I understand that our physical health and mental wellbeing are closely connected. I work closely with individuals to support their overall health. We explore how physical health can affect how we feel, and how our feelings can impact our physical health. I provide personalised help to make sure both our body and mind are in good shape. If you want to learn more, click here.

Find balance and mental wellness with our remote therapy sessions. Culturally sensitive counseling for individuals dealing with stress, trauma, and relationship issues

WORK WITH SELMA?

  • You know, when you think of therapy, you might picture lying on a fancy leather couch while a stern psychologist scribbles notes about your childhood. Well, those days are kind of a relic from Freud's time. Today, therapy looks quite different... at least with me.

    I don’t have a fancy leather couch… yet! I can only offer you a comfy armchair.

    So, what's individual therapy with a psychologist all about? It's like having a personal guide to help you navigate life's challenges. How it's done can vary a lot, depending on your unique needs, the approach we use, and the issue you're facing.

    Now, what goes on in these therapy sessions? Well, the length of a therapy session is 50 minutes.

    Your first session is usually about getting to know each other. I will ask about your background, current situation, family, job, and friends. I won't push you (ever!) to spill all your secrets, but I need enough info to figure out what you may need. Sometimes, the issue you are facing is pretty clear… But other times, there might be something deeper going on, lurking beneath the surface.

    It's important for both of us to understand the problem and come up with a plan to tackle it. The first step is figuring out what the problem is, then why it's happening, what is maintaining it, why is not getting better or worse, and finally, finding ways to move forward.

    Remember, even though I have the clinical skills and the research knowledge, you're the one in the driver's seat. If you ever feel like the therapy should go a different way, don't hesitate to chat about it with me. I am always open to your feedback.

    Our relationship is a big deal for me. If there's anything about me that doesn't sit well with you, if you don't feel at ease, or if my therapy style (or conversational tone) doesn't resonate with you, trust your instincts.

    So, there you have it—the ins and outs of individual therapy in a nutshell. In summary, I am like your GPS, but you're always the one steering the car.

  • Looking to book a wellbeing workshop for your team? You can choose from a diverse range of evidence-based topics that fit your needs and budget.

    I offer both virtual and face-to-face workshops, of varying durations.

    These workshops are designed to enhance individual and organisational wellbeing, covering important areas like:

    • Meditation & Mindfulness Classes

    • Interpersonal communication

    • Stress Management

    • Self-care

    • Mental Health in the Workplace

    • Leadership & Managerial Training

    I also understand that no two groups are the same, so I tailor my content to your specific requirements. This is what sets my workshops apart and makes them highly regarded, ensuring they are always relevant to your unique cohort.

  • I started the Psychology and Neuroscience Informed Consultancy because I saw a real need across various sectors, ranging from education to the building & construction industry.

    Professionals like me were looking for a way to blend psychology and neuroscience interventions with trauma-informed care.

    I firmly believe that the combination of neuroscience and trauma-informed approaches is crucial in our work with individuals who have experienced trauma.

    My consultancy work can be tailored to meet specific needs, facilitate reflective practice for teams, provide professional supervision, or address broader organisational goals. Feel free to reach out to me to discuss your requirements.